The Two Divorce Paths in Spain
Spain offers two fundamentally different divorce processes, and the one you choose dramatically affects your timeline:
Mutuo acuerdo (Mutual consent):
- Both spouses agree on all terms
- Single regulatory agreement covers everything
- One joint petition filed together
- Minimal court involvement
- Timeline: 2-4 months
Contencioso (Contested):
- Spouses disagree on custody, assets, or alimony
- Each spouse has separate legal representation
- Adversarial court proceedings
- Judge decides disputed issues
- Timeline: 6-24+ months
The difference? Mutual consent divorces can be 6-10 times faster than contested divorces. This is why experienced divorce lawyers always recommend attempting mediation before filing contested proceedings.
Mutual Consent Divorce: Month-by-Month Timeline (2-4 Months)
Here's exactly what happens when both spouses agree to divorce terms:
Week 1-2: Initial Consultation and Agreement Drafting
What happens:
- Both spouses (or just one initially) consult with a family lawyer
- Lawyer explains divorce process and timeline
- Initial discussion of terms: custody, property division, alimony
- Lawyer begins drafting the regulatory agreement (convenio regulador)
Your involvement:
- Gather financial documents (property deeds, bank statements, tax returns)
- List all marital assets and debts
- Discuss proposed custody arrangement (if children)
- Provide details of income and expenses
Cost at this stage: €200-500 in initial lawyer consultations
Pro tip: You can technically share one lawyer in mutual consent divorces, saving €800-1,500. However, each spouse having independent counsel prevents conflicts and ensures fair terms.
Week 3-4: Regulatory Agreement Finalization
What happens:
- Lawyer presents draft regulatory agreement to both spouses
- Agreement covers:
- Child custody arrangement (if applicable)
- Visitation schedule
- Child support amounts
- Division of property and assets
- Spousal support (pensión compensatoria) if applicable
- Use of family home
- Division of debts
- Both spouses review and negotiate any changes
- Final agreement signed by both parties and lawyers
Your involvement:
- Read agreement carefully
- Request changes if needed
- Consider having independent lawyer review (highly recommended)
- Sign final version
Timeline checkpoint: By end of Month 1, your regulatory agreement should be complete and signed.
Month 2: Filing the Divorce Petition
What happens:
- Lawyer files joint divorce petition (demanda de divorcio) at Family Court
- Petition includes:
- Signed regulatory agreement
- Marriage certificate
- Birth certificates (if children)
- Property documentation
- Proof of address
- Court assigns case number
- Procurador (court representative) handles administrative filing
Required documents:
- Marriage certificate (certificado literal de matrimonio) - must be recent
- Birth certificates of any children
- Regulatory agreement (original + copies)
- NIE/DNI of both spouses
- Empadronamiento certificates (proof of residence)
Costs at this stage:
- Court fees: €0 (eliminated in 2012 for family law cases)
- Procurador fees: €200-500
- Lawyer fees: Varies, often €500-1,000 at this stage
Timeline: Filing to court review: 2-4 weeks depending on court backlog
Month 2-3: Court Review and Hearing Scheduling
What happens:
- Court reviews submitted documents
- Judge verifies regulatory agreement protects children's interests
- Court schedules ratification hearing (vista)
- Both spouses notified of hearing date
- Wait time varies by court location:
- Madrid: 3-6 weeks
- Barcelona: 4-8 weeks
- Smaller cities: 2-4 weeks
Your involvement:
- Wait for hearing notification
- Ensure you're available on scheduled date
- No action required unless court requests additional documents
Possible delay: If documents are incomplete or improperly formatted, court will request corrections, adding 2-4 weeks.
Month 3-4: Ratification Hearing and Final Decree
What happens:
- Both spouses attend hearing at Family Court
- Brief proceeding (15-30 minutes typically)
- Judge confirms both parties agree freely to terms
- Judge verifies regulatory agreement is fair and legal
- Judge asks if either party wants to change anything
- If all is in order, judge approves divorce on the spot
- Divorce decree (sentencia de divorcio) issued
- Decree becomes final after 20-day appeal period (rarely used in mutual consent)
Your attendance:
- Mandatory - both spouses must appear in person
- Bring original ID/passport
- Lawyer and procurador also attend
- Hearing is usually very quick and procedural
After the hearing:
- Divorce decree registered automatically
- You receive certified copy within 2-4 weeks
- Decree is final after 20 days (if no appeal)
- Can remarry immediately after 20-day period
Total timeline for mutual consent: 2-4 months from initial consultation to final decree
Fastest possible: 2 months in smaller cities with quick court processing
Typical timeline: 3-4 months in major cities like Madrid and Barcelona
Contested Divorce: Month-by-Month Timeline (6-24 Months)
When spouses cannot agree, the timeline extends significantly:
Month 1-2: Filing and Initial Response
What happens:
- One spouse files divorce petition unilaterally
- Petition outlines demands: custody, property division, support
- Court serves other spouse with papers (notificación)
- Spouse has 20 days to respond with contestación
- Counterclaims often filed at this stage
Your involvement:
- File detailed petition through your lawyer
- Or respond to spouse's petition within 20 days
- Provide evidence supporting your position
- Each spouse has separate legal representation (mandatory)
Costs at this stage: €500-1,500 per spouse for initial filings
Timeline checkpoint: By end of Month 2, positions are established and case moves to discovery.
Month 2-4: Preliminary Measures and Discovery
What happens:
- Court may issue preliminary measures (medidas provisionales):
- Temporary custody arrangement
- Temporary child support
- Temporary use of family home
- Temporary spousal support
- Both sides gather evidence (discovery phase):
- Financial records requested
- Property valuations ordered
- Bank statements subpoenaed
- Employment records collected
Your involvement:
- Comply with all document requests
- Provide complete financial disclosure
- Attend preliminary hearing if scheduled
- May need to move out of family home if court orders
Costs at this stage:
- Property valuation: €300-800
- Forensic accounting (if needed): €1,000-3,000
- Lawyer fees: €500-2,000 at this stage
Common delay: Uncooperative spouse refusing to provide documents can add 2-6 months.
Month 4-8: Evidence Gathering and Expert Evaluations
What happens:
- If children involved, court orders custody evaluation (informe psicosocial)
- Court-appointed psychologist interviews:
- Both parents
- Children (if age-appropriate)
- Observes home environments
- Property appraisals completed
- Witness statements collected
- Financial experts analyze assets if complex
Timeline for custody evaluation: 2-4 months from order to final report
Your involvement:
- Cooperate with custody evaluator
- Prepare your home for evaluation visit
- Be honest and child-focused in interviews
- Never speak negatively about other parent to evaluator
Costs at this stage:
- Custody evaluation: €500-1,500 (court pays, sometimes split between parties)
- Expert witness fees: €500-2,000 if you hire private experts
Timeline checkpoint: By Month 6-8, evidence gathering complete and case ready for mediation or trial.
Month 6-12: Mandatory Mediation and Pre-Trial Proceedings
What happens:
- Court orders mandatory mediation session
- Professional mediator attempts to help spouses reach agreement
- If successful, converts to mutual consent divorce (saving 6-12 months)
- If unsuccessful, case proceeds to trial
- Pre-trial hearings scheduled to narrow issues
- Settlement negotiations continue
Success rate of court-ordered mediation: Approximately 30-40% reach settlement
Your involvement:
- Attend mediation in good faith
- Consider compromises seriously
- Listen to mediator's reality check about trial risks
- Evaluate settlement offers carefully
Costs at this stage:
- Mediation: Usually free (court-provided)
- Ongoing lawyer fees: €1,000-3,000
Timeline if settlement reached: Case can conclude within 2-3 months from this point
Timeline if no settlement: Proceed to trial, adding 6-12 more months
Month 8-18: Trial Scheduling and Preparation
What happens:
- Trial date scheduled (often 4-8 months out due to court backlogs)
- Lawyers prepare trial strategy
- Witnesses prepared
- Evidence organized and finalized
- Final settlement attempts made
Your involvement:
- Meet regularly with lawyer
- Prepare testimony
- Review evidence
- Consider one final settlement attempt
Costs at this stage:
- Lawyer trial preparation: €2,000-5,000
- Expert witnesses: €500-2,000 per witness
Common delay: Court backlogs frequently push trial dates back 2-4 months
Month 12-18: Trial
What happens:
- Formal trial before family court judge
- Both sides present evidence
- Witnesses testify
- Experts present findings
- Lawyers make closing arguments
- Trial can be one hearing or multiple sessions
Trial length:
- Simple contested divorce: 1-2 hours
- Complex cases: Multiple sessions over 2-6 months
Your involvement:
- Attend all trial sessions (mandatory)
- Testify when called
- Professional appearance and demeanor crucial
Costs at this stage:
- Lawyer trial fees: €2,000-5,000
- Total legal costs to this point: €5,000-15,000+ per spouse
Month 12-24: Judgment and Possible Appeals
What happens:
- Judge issues ruling (sentencia) within 1-3 months after trial
- Ruling covers all disputed issues:
- Custody arrangement
- Visitation schedule
- Child support amounts
- Property division
- Alimony (if applicable)
- Either party can appeal within 20 days
- Appeal adds 6-12 months to timeline
Appeal process:
- Filed with Provincial Court (Audiencia Provincial)
- Review of lower court's decision
- Rarely overturns family court rulings
- Adds €2,000-5,000 in additional legal fees
Final timeline: 6-24 months for contested divorce without appeal, 12-36 months with appeals
The 3-Month Marriage Minimum
Important legal requirement: You must be married for at least 3 months before filing for divorce in Spain.
Why this rule exists:
- Prevents impulsive divorces immediately after marriage
- Ensures marriages are given reasonable chance
- Protects against fraudulent marriages
Exception: The 3-month requirement can be waived if there is evidence of risk to physical or psychological well-being of spouse or children.
Comparison to other countries:
- UK: Must be married 1 year minimum
- France: No minimum period
- Germany: 1-year separation required first
- Spain's 3-month rule is relatively lenient
What if we just married 1 month ago?
- You must wait until 3-month anniversary to file
- Use this time to attempt reconciliation or prepare for divorce
- Consult lawyer during waiting period
- Gather financial documents
- Consider mediation
Does the 3-month clock start from wedding or registration?
- From the date of marriage registration (inscripción del matrimonio)
- For marriages abroad, from apostilled marriage certificate date
Factors That Speed Up Your Divorce
Want to minimize your timeline? Focus on these factors:
1. Reach Mutual Agreement Before Filing
Time saved: 4-20 months
The single biggest factor affecting divorce timeline is whether you file mutual consent or contested.
How to achieve this:
- Hire a mediator before involving lawyers
- Be realistic about outcomes (courts favor 50/50 custody)
- Focus on children's best interests, not revenge
- Use collaborative divorce lawyers trained in settlement
Cost comparison:
- Mutual consent: €1,000-3,500 total
- Contested: €5,000-15,000+ per spouse
2. Have No Children
Time saved: 1-3 months
Divorces without children are significantly faster because:
- No custody evaluation required (saving 2-4 months)
- No child support calculations
- Fewer disputes typically
- Simpler regulatory agreements
Timeline:
- Childless mutual consent: 2-3 months
- With children mutual consent: 3-4 months
3. No Property Disputes
Time saved: 2-6 months
Complex property division requires:
- Professional valuations (2-4 weeks per property)
- Forensic accounting (1-3 months)
- Business valuations if self-employed
- International property documentation
Simplest scenarios:
- Renters with no real estate: Fastest
- One property clearly owned by one spouse: Quick
- Multiple properties or businesses: Slow
4. Both Parties Cooperative
Time saved: 3-8 months
Cooperative spouses:
- Respond to document requests promptly
- Attend scheduled hearings
- Don't file frivolous motions
- Negotiate in good faith
Uncooperative spouses can delay by:
- Ignoring court orders (forcing enforcement proceedings)
- Repeatedly changing lawyers
- Missing hearings
- Hiding assets
5. Experienced Family Lawyers
Time saved: 1-3 months
Specialized divorce lawyers (abogados de familia):
- Know exactly what documents courts need
- File everything correctly first time
- Have relationships with court staff
- Efficiently negotiate settlements
- Avoid procedural delays
Red flag: General practice lawyers who don't specialize in family law often make errors that add weeks or months.
Cost: Specialized lawyers charge €100-300/hour vs €80-150/hour for general lawyers, but save money overall through efficiency.
6. File in Madrid or Barcelona
Time saved: Potentially faster
Counter-intuitively, major cities often process divorces faster because:
- Specialized family courts (vs general courts in small cities)
- More judges dedicated to family law
- Better systems and resources
- However, also more backlog
Reality varies by specific court:
- Madrid Juzgado de Familia 1: Very efficient
- Barcelona Juzgado de Familia 9: Known for delays
- Check with local lawyers about specific court reputations
Factors That Delay Your Divorce
Avoid these common timeline killers:
1. Contested Custody Battles
Time added: 6-12 months
Custody disputes require:
- Court-appointed custody evaluation (2-4 months)
- Psychological testing
- Home visits
- School interviews
- Extended trial proceedings
Most disputed issue in Spanish divorces: Custody arrangements
Modern reality: Spanish courts strongly favor shared custody (custodia compartida) since 2013 reforms. Fighting this presumption is difficult and time-consuming.
2. Complex Asset Division
Time added: 3-8 months
Time-consuming asset issues:
- International property: Requires valuations, legal opinions from multiple countries (add 2-4 months)
- Business ownership: Forensic accounting, business valuations (add 3-6 months)
- Hidden assets: Discovery process, subpoenas, investigations (add 4-8 months)
- Cryptocurrency/offshore assets: Especially difficult to value and divide (add 3-6 months)
3. Uncooperative or Hiding Spouse
Time added: 4-12 months
Delaying tactics include:
- Refusing to sign documents
- Not responding to lawyer communications
- Skipping court appearances (requiring rescheduling)
- Hiding financial information
- Filing baseless motions
Court remedies:
- Default judgments (if spouse doesn't appear)
- Sanctions for non-cooperation
- Adverse inferences (assuming hidden assets exist)
4. Court Backlogs
Time added: 2-6 months
Regional variations in case backlog:
- Madrid family courts: 8-12 month backlog for trials
- Barcelona: 10-15 month backlog
- Smaller cities: Often less backlog, but less specialized
COVID-19 impact: Many courts still catching up from 2020-2021 closures
Seasonal factors:
- July-August: Courts operate at reduced capacity
- September-October: Backlog from summer
- January: Fresh start, some delays from holidays
5. Multiple Appeals
Time added: 6-12 months per appeal
Appeal process:
- File within 20 days of judgment
- Provincial Court (Audiencia Provincial) reviews
- 6-12 month process
- Can appeal again to Supreme Court (rare)
- Each level adds 6-12 months
Success rate of appeals: Only 15-20% of family law appeals succeed
Strategic question: Is appeal worth €3,000-5,000 in additional fees plus 6-12 months delay?
6. International Complications
Time added: 3-9 months
Complications that slow divorces:
- Spouse lives abroad: Service of process difficulties
- Foreign marriages: Apostilled certificates required
- Children in different countries: Hague Convention proceedings
- International assets: Multiple jurisdictions
Hague Convention cases: If spouse takes children abroad, add 6-18 months for return proceedings
Regional Court Speed Variations
Divorce timelines vary significantly by region:
Madrid Courts
Mutual consent timeline: 2-3 months Contested timeline: 8-12 months
Characteristics:
- Specialized family courts
- Experienced judges
- High volume but efficient systems
- Best court: Juzgado de Familia nº 1 (fastest)
- Slowest: Juzgado de Familia nº 15
Pro tip: Your lawyer can't choose which specific court, but location of residence affects assignment.
Barcelona Courts
Mutual consent timeline: 3-4 months Contested timeline: 10-15 months
Characteristics:
- Significant backlog (worse than Madrid)
- Bilingual proceedings (Catalan/Spanish) can add complexity
- COVID backlog still affecting timelines
- Suburban courts (L'Hospitalet, Badalona) sometimes faster
Valencia Courts
Mutual consent timeline: 2-3 months Contested timeline: 8-14 months
Characteristics:
- Less backlog than Madrid/Barcelona
- Efficient family court system
- Growing expat population increasing caseload
Costa del Sol (Málaga, Marbella, Fuengirola)
Mutual consent timeline: 3-4 months Contested timeline: 8-12 months
Characteristics:
- High percentage of international/expat divorces
- Judges experienced with complex international cases
- English-speaking lawyers readily available
- Marbella court particularly experienced with international assets
Smaller Cities (Girona, Tarragona, Granada, etc.)
Mutual consent timeline: 2-3 months Contested timeline: 6-10 months
Characteristics:
- Less case backlog = faster processing
- General courts (not specialized family courts)
- Less experienced with complex international divorces
- But faster overall timelines
Consideration: If your divorce is complex (international assets, custody disputes), specialized Madrid/Barcelona courts may be worth the extra wait for experienced judges.
How to Minimize Your Divorce Timeline
1. Try Mediation Before Filing
Potential time savings: 6-18 months
Professional mediators (€100-200/hour) can help you:
- Draft regulatory agreement before involving courts
- Resolve custody disagreements
- Agree on property division
- File mutual consent instead of contested
Cost: €500-2,000 for mediation vs €5,000-15,000 for contested divorce
Success rate: 60-70% of couples who try mediation reach agreement
2. Use Collaborative Divorce Lawyers
Potential time savings: 3-8 months
Collaborative divorce:
- Both spouses hire collaborative-trained lawyers
- Everyone commits to settlement (no trial threats)
- Joint meetings to negotiate terms
- Converts to mutual consent filing
Available in: Madrid, Barcelona, Valencia (growing in popularity)
3. Be Organized with Documents
Potential time savings: 1-3 months
Prepare these before meeting lawyer:
- Marriage certificate (recent literal copy)
- Birth certificates of children
- Property deeds (escrituras)
- Bank statements (last 12 months)
- Tax returns (last 3 years)
- Employment contracts
- Pension statements
- Business ownership documents
Tip: Complete financial disclosure upfront prevents discovery delays later.
4. Respond Promptly to All Requests
Potential time savings: 2-4 months
Quick responses to:
- Lawyer emails and calls
- Court document requests
- Custody evaluator appointments
- Financial disclosure requests
Every week of delay can add 2-4 weeks to timeline due to court scheduling.
5. Choose the Right Lawyer
Potential time savings: 2-6 months
Look for:
- Specialization: Only hire abogados de familia (family law specialists)
- Local experience: Lawyer familiar with your specific court
- Settlement focus: Avoid overly aggressive lawyers who escalate conflicts
- Availability: Lawyer who responds within 24-48 hours
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6. Be Realistic About Outcomes
Potential time savings: 6-12 months
Spanish family law trends:
- Shared custody is presumed - fighting it rarely succeeds and adds 6-12 months
- Equal property division - expect 50/50 split of marital assets
- Limited alimony - only awarded when clear income disparity and need
- Child support follows formula - not much room for negotiation
Reality check: If your lawyer says you'll get outcomes significantly different from these norms, get a second opinion. Unrealistic expectations lead to contested proceedings and years of delays.
Divorce Timeline Comparison Table
| Factor | Mutual Consent | Contested |
|---|---|---|
| Typical Timeline | 2-4 months | 6-24 months |
| Fastest Possible | 2 months | 6 months |
| With Complications | 4-6 months | 18-36 months |
| Court Hearings | 1 (ratification) | 3-8+ (preliminary, mediation, trial) |
| Lawyer Fees (per spouse) | €800-2,000 | €3,000-15,000+ |
| Total Cost (both) | €1,500-3,500 | €6,000-30,000+ |
| Custody Evaluation | Not required | 2-4 months if children |
| Property Valuation | Optional | Usually required |
| Emotional Toll | Low-moderate | High |
| Can Convert to Other Type? | No (already agreed) | Yes (via mediation) |
Common Timeline Questions
Can I speed up my divorce by paying more?
No. Court processing times are fixed regardless of how much you pay your lawyer. Expensive lawyers may be more efficient, but they cannot make courts move faster.
What you can pay for:
- Faster preparation of documents
- More experienced negotiation
- Better likelihood of settlement (avoiding trial)
Does hiring a procurador slow things down?
No. Procuradores are mandatory in Spain for divorce proceedings. They handle court filings and communications. Having one does not delay your case.
Cost: €200-500 for mutual consent, €500-1,500 for contested
What if my spouse is in another country?
Timeline impact: Add 2-6 months
International service of process:
- Documents sent via Hague Convention process
- 30-90 days for service
- If spouse unreachable, publication service (adds 3-6 months)
Can still proceed: Spanish courts have jurisdiction if you're resident in Spain
Can I remarry before divorce is final?
No. You must wait until divorce decree is final and 20-day appeal period expires.
Timeline to remarry:
- Mutual consent: 3-5 months from filing
- Contested: 7-25 months from filing
Does legal separation (separación legal) speed up divorce?
No. Spain allows direct divorce since 2005 reforms. Legal separation no longer required.
Modern approach: File for divorce directly, skipping separation.
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This guide was last updated in January 2025. Spanish divorce law and court processing times may change. Always verify current requirements with a qualified family law attorney.
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